Posts

INSECURITY

Hi guys, welcome back to my page *mimics YouTube vlogger*. I am extremely sorry about the delay in posting this. I will try to post on a monthly or bimonthly from now on. I hope you enjoyed the last post and if you have not read it, this is a link to the post  https://iomodele.blogspot.com/2018/12/forgiveness.html  . So today, I am talking about insecurity (in romantic relationships). What is insecurity? Insecurity is the feeling of uncertainty or lack of confidence about something (or someone).  Insecure  people  have little  confidence  in  themselves or their   abilities. This could lead to trust issues, when people try to get close to them, they begin to question their intentions, they doubt  if other  people  really like them and fear abandonment if they are too attached. As humans, we naturally feel insecure at times. However, a few of us feel this way more often than not. Some of the experiences that could...

Forgiveness

WARNING!!!!!!!!! THIS IS A VERY LONG READ. So this is a deep topic and we all think we know what forgiveness is actually about, but do we? Now let us start with the meaning of forgiveness. As seen on Wikipedia,  Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an offense, let’s go of negative emotions such as vengefulness, forswears recompense from or punishment of the offender, however legally or morally justified it might be, and with an increased ability to wish the offender well.  Long definition right? Yeah, I know. So do you think that before reading this you knew what it meant to forgive? Some important questions about forgiveness. I asked some of the questions last week on twitter and well some of the answers I got were impressive, others were the normal stuff we experience within ourselves. I will answer from my point of view first. 1. Would yo...

Introduction

Hi Everyone, This is just an introductory post... I'm Dunni/ Modele (anyone you love more)... So, I've loved the idea of blogging for so long but I never really knew what i wanted to blog about but i think i finally found the perfect blog idea. I love advising people a lot (especially on relationships.. I love love..๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ™ˆ lol). I'm going to be blogging about general life lessons and I hope we can share our experiences and learn from it. Thank you to everyone who helped me choose what I should blog about.. Modele๐Ÿ’“.